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I agree. It is best to embrace reality, however hard and traumatic it is. We learn not only who we are, but realize who we can be. A decade ago I went through three losses - my consulting practice ended; I was fired from the nonprofit organization that I led; and, my marriage of 30 years ended. All this took place in the span of about 18-20 months. It wasn’t traumatic. It was hard. I was almost 60 years old, born into families where most members live into their nineties. So, I decided to start over. I didn’t blame anyone. I took responsibility for my life. I talk with people everyday who are faced with hardship and self-doubt. The key is helping them find some inner resource that can help them face the real world. Thank you for writing about this aspect of human life that touches many people.

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If you keep writing, I’ll keep reading. Thanks to you, too.

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