Thank you for your compassionate and insightful writing Devaraj. I appreciate your non shaming voicing that for some people with early wounds of not feeling safe and connected and helped to feel their feelings, anger can trigger life threat in the nervous system. Indeed feeling oneβs own life energy and aliveness and feelings can do this when someone experienced as a little child being threatened with ostracism- which is a death threat deeply held in our cellular system. I agree with you that this is terrifying and needs a very tender and gentle response to help someone feel safe and connected so they can experience their feelings and energetic charge at their own pace.
I enjoy your writing and podcasts Deveraj. I appreciate you sharing your own journey also, Your curiosity and seeking and emotional honesty is inspiring. Thank you. I wish you every joy and blessing.
Working with clients, there does seem to be a correlation with CFS and similar conditions. The nervous system learned to shut down, when anger was triggered, aged two.
Thank you for your compassionate and insightful writing Devaraj. I appreciate your non shaming voicing that for some people with early wounds of not feeling safe and connected and helped to feel their feelings, anger can trigger life threat in the nervous system. Indeed feeling oneβs own life energy and aliveness and feelings can do this when someone experienced as a little child being threatened with ostracism- which is a death threat deeply held in our cellular system. I agree with you that this is terrifying and needs a very tender and gentle response to help someone feel safe and connected so they can experience their feelings and energetic charge at their own pace.
I enjoy your writing and podcasts Deveraj. I appreciate you sharing your own journey also, Your curiosity and seeking and emotional honesty is inspiring. Thank you. I wish you every joy and blessing.
Warmly
Julie ππ»πποΈ
Thank you so much for posting this Devaraj!!
It comes at a time where I just realized that I lost the feeling of anger. Literally like just this week haha
I have memories of it, but it seems like this vague thing that used to happen in another lifetime.
Your work as been so helpful for me in learning to feel again.
Dr Gabor Mate says there is correlation with this and Motor Neurons Disease!
Working with clients, there does seem to be a correlation with CFS and similar conditions. The nervous system learned to shut down, when anger was triggered, aged two.